Or you hide that you use it. Both are costing you.
Ten questions for people whose business runs on what they know. Each one names something you probably already know but haven't said out loud yet.
“Can I give you a retainer or something so I can keep feeding you projects to help me grow?”
The questions are built on my doctoral research into how people respond when they're under pressure to become marketable. It also applies to the pressures we are facing right now with AI. Three responses showed up consistently. Two of them are quietly expensive, and most people are in one of those two without realizing it.
One question at a time. Answer honestly. 5 minutes max.
Across 13 experiments with more than 5,000 people, disclosing AI involvement dropped trust in the discloser by 16 to 20%. Not trust in the quality of the work. Trust in the person who produced it.
At the same time, 92% of college faculty report concern about plagiarism or dishonesty facilitated by AI. The American Bar Association has issued ethics warnings to lawyers about professional liability. Professional associations across medicine, finance, and consulting are telling their members to proceed with caution.
The market is telling you to move fast. Your professional world is telling you to be careful. The rest of these questions are about where that's actually left you.
Sources. Trust and AI disclosure: Schilke and Reimann, The Transparency Dilemma, Organizational Behavior and Human Decision Processes, 23 April 2025. Faculty concern: College Board, College Faculty Perceptions of Generative Artificial Intelligence in Higher Education, 25 February 2026.
Take your time with this one.
Your answers show a business where the expertise is real but the system holding it together is mostly you. AI is in the picture, but it's working off whatever happens to be in the prompt. Not your voice. Not your standards. Not the judgment your clients are actually paying for.
What complying means, what it's costing you, and what to do about it is in the email.
You get the email. That's it. Nobody calls you and nothing gets pitched.
Your answers show someone who has been careful for good reasons. But careful and visible are not the same thing. While you've been working out where you stand, the people looking for someone with your expertise have been searching. And the AI answering their questions does not yet know who you are.
What resisting means, what it's costing you, and what to do about it is in the email.
You get the email. That's it. Nobody calls you and nothing gets pitched.
Your answers show someone who has already figured out the part most people skip. You know generic output is a context problem, not a tool problem. But the judgment, the standards, the way you think through a hard client situation: none of that is in a form AI can actually use yet. That's the part that makes your work yours.
What humanizing means, what it takes to finish the job, and what it's worth is in the email.
You get the email. That's it. Nobody calls you and nothing gets pitched.
Look for an email from Carol Roderick, PhD. If it's not in your inbox in a couple of minutes, check your promotions or spam folder and drag it over.